When you make the big decision to move in together, it comes with lots of little decisions about combining your households. It’s best to discuss your needs and work out a plan so you’re both comfortable in your new environment together. Here are a few tips to help make moving in together a little easier.
The first decision you’ll have to make is where you want to live. Your current respective living situations may not suit a combined household. Often, finding a new home to give you a fresh start together can be the better decision.
If you decide to move into one of your current homes, you’ll have to be prepared to make compromises over space, living arrangements and what furniture you’ll keep. The person moving in will likely want to keep some of their furniture to help make the home familiar.
The odds are good you’ll have almost two of everything. At the least, you’ll have two beds and two sets of furniture. If you have the space or a spare room, you may be able to keep both sets of furniture. If not, you’ll need to decide what to keep and what to sell or give away. Often, couples make this decision based on what item of furniture or appliance is in better condition.
If you don’t want to dispose of one set of furniture, the other option to consider is storage. Long-term storage is quite affordable. You may need these items further on down the track, such as if you move into a bigger home or plan to start a family. Storage is also useful if you want to declutter your home and put aside extra sets of blankets or other bulky items.
Before you move, make a plan. Set a date so you can wrap up any loose ends, organise movers or storage, and sell or give away any unneeded items. Give yourself plenty of time if you can, so you don’t have regrets in the future over hurried decisions. If you’re having difficulty making decisions, we strongly recommend getting storage. It will give you that extra buffer of time.
Another important decision you should make is how you’ll pay the bills and split the cost of living. Combining your finances can be a complex process in itself. Decide if you want joint accounts and who handles paying for phones, water, power and any other utilities. Make sure you’re both comfortable with this to avoid having disagreements later on.
Moving in together is a big moment in both your lives. It’s an exciting time and filled with change. If we can help to make your move any easier, please give us a call.
